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Thursday, April 12, 2012
Demanding or not? Good afternoon all! I shall blog while I'm on the cab to work. I've been cabbing to work everyday due to my poor time management. When can I ever change!! Sigh. Well anyway, back to my post on demanding or not, are you a demanding person? Do you have sky high expectations of others and yourself? Being demanding has its good and bad. The more demanding you are, the higher expectations you have set for others and yourself. I think I used to be a very demanding person and many times, disappointment sets in. Should I say it's my fault for expecting too much from others? I don't know. But truth is, if you realize, those with the least expectations tend to be happier people and also, they tend to cherish things and others around them better. Given my current self, I wouldn't say I'm demanding (im naturally comparing this to my former self) and I find myself cherishing all the sweet little things everybody does for me rather than taking it for granted thinking 'well it's supposed to be like this' You see, what I didn't realize from before is that everybody HAS a choice to do something. They may suppose to care as a friend but it's their choice! Yes, it's common sense, I know. I just didn't see that for others because maybe I have high expectations of myself to be there for others. So what inspired this post? Remember a few posts back (also on twitter) I was telling everyone that Mercus has been keeping his promise by buying roses for me every week? Well a week after that, he didn't. LOL okay, blame me for announcing my happiness to the world and setting the curse. Whatever it is he didn't get me any flowers for about... 2 weeks? Honestly, I wasn't sad cause I can't really expect him to buy me flowers EVERY WEEK. People forget. And truth is, he did want to buy on a few occasions when I was around but I stopped him because I didnt see a point in buying them in front of me! However I cannot deny I was a little disappointed! (SEE! Expectations!) I wasn't disappointed because I didn't receive flowers but rather, I was disappointed that he promised me but didn't keep to his words! But back to my previous paragraph, I don't expect him to get me flowers really every week. The human brain is confusing! Don't blame me! I contradict myself way more often than normal people. So after two weeks, he realised he had to fill in the two weeks of missing flowers and got me these.  At this point, when he handed me the flowers, I realised that actually I AM rather demanding. I mean I really do appreciate him getting me flowers and all but feeling disappointed shows that I am rather demanding right? Now I’m beginning to feel confused myself. I have no idea what I’m talking about! Okay less about me. Since we are on this topic on ‘demanding or not’, I shall say I few situations of girlfriends who are SUPER demanding. Girl #1 I’m sure you all have friends like that. But to this point, I don’t know. When I was in secondary school, I knew this girl, L. L is not bad looking, from a rather well-off family, I believe and well… have some expectations of her boyfriend. 1 1) He must fetch from home when they go out and fetch her home… ALWAYS. okay, it doesn’t sound that bad but… ALWAYS? Seriously?! That’s like bringing a dog out for a walk, don’t you think? What if the boyfriend stays on the other side of the island? What if he has other plans before or after the date? It’s ridiculous! 2) He must pay for every of their meals, movies and whatever they do together. Another insane expectation. You’re dating a guy. Not an ATM. Say they’ll meet for 4 days a weeks and have dinner and movie together. Reasonable? Let’s calculate. Dinner – 40 for 2 people Movie – 20 Popcorn – 7.50 Just say these, no cabs, nothing. That’s $1080 a month! She was in secondary school and so I assume her boyfriend should be studying too. How is that possible to sustain in a long run? Maybe 6 months, okay… 2 years?! 3) L expects surprises and gifts now and then. And anniversaries to always be celebrated. Okay, I’m not even going to elaborate on this point.
I don’t know but maybe some girls actually are forgetting that our lives aren’t in some sort of drama but we actually live in the real world. Unless youre dating a really rich man’s son and he loves you SO MUCH… okay, youre the luckiest girl on earth if you love him back. Girl #2 This girl isn’t that bad but I find it ridiculous too and I believe there are more girls out there whom are like her. P has a curfew which is quite early and she meets her boyfriend almost everyday. But the thing is, the boyfriend does not have a curfew. So after their day out, he would send her back and he’ll meet his friends outside. Anything wrong? I don’t see any. The problem is.. she HATES him going to meet his friends. She knows his friends too. But she wants him to go home so he can talk to her on the phone. Sometimes he goes home early but he plays games. Many guys do. And also, its known that guys cannot multi task. So he cant actually talk on the phone. World war starts.
I don’t know but being in a relationship should not be like that right? Maybe different people has different ways of handling their own rs. But if I were a guy and my girlfriend was like that. I would go crazzzyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! So anyway I shall end off this extremely lengthy and wordy posts with some pictures!  Me at work with an awkward smile. Oh anyway my lips have been getting paler and paler. Why? Idk but its getting so pale to the point I look very sickly and… weak! I need help!  Was having this at work yesterday.. so nostalgic, don’t you think?  and of course, my current nails. <3 okay, back to work! bye
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